One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

Sex Coach vs. Couples Counselling: Which Is Right for You?

Sex Coach vs. Couples Counselling: Which Is Right for You?

Wondering if you need a sex coach, a couples counsellor, or both? I share my honest take on how each one can help, what most couples are really feeling (and why), and why it’s not about “fixing” you or your partner—but learning new skills together.

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Tired of Couples Counselling? Try These Relationship-Saving Alternatives

Tired of Couples Counselling? Try These Relationship-Saving Alternatives

In this episode I share when my partner and I went to a couples counsellor after the birth of our first child. From my post-partum anxiety I was experiencing resentment and contempt and didn’t want this to be the theme of our relationship.

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Take the Solve Your Sex Drive Quiz

Get out of your sexual stale mate in four quick minutes

Figure out what’s blocking your sex drive after kids

Initiate a playful low pressure connection date with your partner even if you don’t have the time, energy, or desire for sex